I am so excited to announce that I just released my first book, "How to Respond to Code of Conduct Reports." You can download it for free from my business website. The book is based on a short guide by Mary Gardiner, and edited by Annalee Flower Horne. Responding to code of conduct reports is … Continue reading What I learned writing my first non-fiction book
A little over five years ago, I stopped eating one food. About a month later, I suddenly realized that, for the first time in nearly seven years, I did not want to die. My history of untreatable suicidal depression, insomnia, and anxiety became just that: history. At the same time, a bunch of other little … Continue reading Finding food allergies and sensitivities
Updated on April 17, 2019. After several helpful conversations, I have decided to that I am no longer willing to host the original content of this post (but you can still read an archive of it here). I am deleting it because I was intending to support and center people who are the target of misogyny, … Continue reading Double Union is dead, long live Double Union!
Frame Shift Consulting is getting so much business that I need another facilitator to help me teach Ally Skills Workshops! Short version: We are searching for a second part-time facilitator to help teach the popular Ally Skills Workshop at tech companies, primarily in the San Francisco Bay Area as well as around the world and … Continue reading Hiring a facilitator for the Ally Skills Workshop
When I agreed to talk about the management problems at the Linux Foundation to Noam Cohen, the reporter who wrote this story on Linux for the New Yorker, I expected to wait at least a year to see any significant change in the Linux community. Instead, before the story was even published, the Linux project … Continue reading Something is rotten in the Linux Foundation
The thing I did not expect was how helpless I would feel during the end of U.S. democracy. I read so many books and articles on what it is like living in a collapsing democracy, but I thought that since we all knew about how that worked now, we'd be able to stop it this … Continue reading Living in a collapsing democracy
It sounds like Bryan Cantrill is thinking about organizing another computer conference. When he did that in 2016, I wrote a blog post about why I wouldn't attend, because, based on my experience as Bryan's former co-worker, I believed that Bryan Cantrill would probably say cruel and humiliating things to people who attended. I understand … Continue reading Bryan Cantrill has been accused of verbal abuse by at least seven people